I get looking ahead, but it seems like you are very unhappy with the way things are now. Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose. If you go to mormonthink. Have been MD in good relationship for 25 years with kids etc but key is that my wife has her own life and works as hard as I do at her own career and isn't caught up in my world. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church. If she identifies as a Mormon, then she probably takes her faith seriously, and it means a lot to her. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. I was thinking the same thing when I read this. Observe the suttle loony behavior of the family during thanksgiving. And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom.
December 19, OK, you're off the hook, mine was in the 70's too, but I hadn't been to CA by then. I am also going thru the same thing. As far as as race and the priesthood, Mormons still believe the priesthood ban was divinely inspired.
Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. A good doctor must be willing to sacrifice his own needs for the good of his patient and as his wife, you sacrifice as well. They have money for nannies, trips, vacation homes, their children go to the finest colleges, etc. This sub is a great place to do that. Honestly I'd let things keep going. Though, not everyone is looking for a free lunch out of a marriage. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment.
After reading all these comments I now know that life will be even harder when he will be in residency My boyfriend and I are getting engaged next month. I'm trying to maintain my own professional goals which he is very supportive of but I'm quickly realising that in order for us to have some quality time together, something has got to give Currently he abroad at yet another conference. We've always had a very loving and intimate relationship, but the physical absence really has made a negative impact. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church.