Marriage is simply not an option to me there. He is a great man and I know he will always put his family first but this is such a hard decision. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. The bottom line is that you are setting yourself up for difficult times ahead.
But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either. I knew a guy who joined the Mormon church because he thought it would help him date a certain Mormon girl, a girl who refused to date non-Mormons. Love is what we do, not what we feel. I expect to give up my career once he finishes his training and we start a family. Our children 18,13,10 have become a handful. If you do, that's okay. I don't pity you at all. So, now I'm battling interview season with the fourth year dates and beginning of residency with the labor day date. Through this, if you run into unforeseen issues like sold out movies or you cannot get a seat at a restaurant, you will always have a backup plan. When you try to explain to them why the church would not publish said info on their own website they get mad at you and tell you you're ignorant.
This can make it harder for you two to do things together. Please see above link for full rules. Now the Pew survey only took into account self-identification, i. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it. I would not have wanted to be dismissed as crazy and unworthy of attention when I was still a member, because it wouldn't have been true. The divorce factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon men marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only options for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy. Trust me, I too tried to make it work with my very Mormon also returned missionary ex-girlfriend. I am professor, and he is a surgeon in his first year as an attending. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father.
Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. Log into your account. You are commenting using your WordPress. Better to now what you're going into in a relationship with a doctor or would-be-doctor.