Also, love how you describe how God has our backs and we can actually act on the notion of things hoped for that are not seen instead of the quaint pseudo idea that all things are known in advance, step by step, and lead to mortal and eternal bliss. She is in pretty deep and culture is a powerful force. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. It's winter here and I figured she was layering for warmth.
Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. No walking your daughter down the aisle, no giving your daughter away at the alter, nothing but you standing outside the temple waiting till it's over. I explained to her that from my perspective, if a religious person does something good, you can't trust them because they're doing it for the wrong reasons: When an atheist does something good, you know they're not doing it for any reason other than to help someone else. But I do still largely consider us an interfaith couple. Likewise, posts found to direct odious influxes here may be removed. Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons.
Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. I could go on, but this should give you the idea. I was shocked how much the stress, lack of sleep, etc.
Until you do he's a free agent and in high demand. Sorry for the VERY late reply. These past few weeks have made me very depressed. We've only been dating for a short time.